rosanaflomuntad

My DOB is May 9, 1961. My husbands DOB is March 9, 1956 I was advised that we have exactly opposite signs. How do I go about it? I am confused about using the compass - should I stand in front of the main door, and what does it mean? Or should I stand in the middle of each part of my house and what does it implicate? Im really confused. Thanks & hope to hear from you, Rosana