kua no. compatability

[myfs_111296]

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My Husbands date of birth is July 10, 1963 & mine 4th Aug 1966. Can you tell us how to increase the compatability between us. We are working in the same organisation & always have heated arguments

[Robert Lee]

Dear Romila,

For the Eight House or Kua, it is not really possible to improve the relationship. For example, if North is Excellent for you, but North is Spook for your spouse, then it is not possible to make North the best direction for both of you. This is a limitation of this concept.

However, what most people can do is ensure that you apply the give and take concept. Meaning, priority of a suitability to a house goes to the breadwinner, while the breadwinner gets a less auspicious room. Then give the spouse a better more suitable bedroom, since the spouse does not get the luck from the house.

The only way you can improve any compatibilty, is between your birth element. Say one is weak waer and another is Strong metal. Then the best binding element is Water element. Which can then mean that you should choose colours such as blue/back/gray as a common element for the bedroom etc.

Please use the free Compatibilty analysis in our Members Areas:-

URL: http://login.geomancy.net

To help you determine what are your individual elements as well as the common binding element to improve your relationship or compatibility.

Hope that helps.

Warmest Regards
Robert Lee
GEOMANCY.NET - Center for Applied Feng Shui Research

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On 3/1/2005 12:01:06 AM, Anonymous wrote:

Edited by Robert: Please avoid

repeating your post. Your

postings will be attended to

once we get to it. Please read

our notice on when can I

expect an reply on my post?

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um/article.php?bid=2&fid=1

&mid=17755

My Husbands date of birth is

July 10, 1963 & mine 4th

Aug 1966. Can you tell us how

to increase the compatability

between us. We are working in

the same organisation &

always have heated arguments

[myfs_111296]

Dear Robert

But how can we have a better relationship, there are always lots of unnecessary arguments. I just want to know what's the best way for both of us.Since both of us are working in same organisation, what are the directions we should use to enhance our capabilities, working relation as well as our married life?

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On 3/1/2005 7:06:46 PM, Anonymous wrote:

Dear Romila,

For the Eight House or Kua, it

is not really possible to

improve the relationship. For

example, if North is Excellent

for you, but North is Spook

for your spouse, then it is

not possible to make North the

best direction for both of

you. This is a limitation of

this concept.

However, what most people can

do is ensure that you apply

the give and take concept.

Meaning, priority of a

suitability to a house goes to

the breadwinner, while the

breadwinner gets a less

auspicious room. Then give the

spouse a better more suitable

bedroom, since the spouse does

not get the luck from the

house.

The only way you can improve

any compatibilty, is between

your birth element. Say one is

weak waer and another is

Strong metal. Then the best

binding element is Water

element. Which can then mean

that you should choose colours

such as blue/back/gray as a

common element for the bedroom

etc.

Please use the free

Compatibilty analysis in our

Members Areas:-

URL: http://login.geomancy.net

To help you determine what are

your individual elements as

well as the common binding

element to improve your

relationship or compatibility.

Hope that helps.

Warmest RegardsRobert

LeeGEOMANCY.NET - Center for

Applied Feng Shui Research

On 3/1/2005 12:01:06 AM, Romila Daga

wrote:
Edited by Robert: Please

avoid
repeating your post.

Your
postings will be attended

to
once we get to it. Please

read
our notice on when can

I
expect an reply on my

post?
URL:
http://www.geomancy.net

/phpfor
um/article.php?bid=2&fid=

1
&mid=17755
My Husbands date

of birth is
July 10, 1963 & mine

4th
Aug 1966. Can you tell us

how
to increase the

compatability
between us. We are

working in
the same organisation

&
always have heated arguments

[Robert Lee]

Dear Romila,

There is no easy way to improve relationships, especially for office or in large organisations. This is because, often you do not have the luxuary to be able to have your own personliased space where you can plan where you can sit / face / colour for your area. Often, area is given to you. So you just have to make do with what you can correct and try to be more tolerant to avoid conflicts.

In terms of Feng Shui:-

1. Just use the compatibility report in our members area.

URL: http://login.geomancy.net

Find out what element do you each belong to and what element is common to both persons. Have more of such elements such as the colour for the common areas both of you share.

2. At least try to have more of your own favourable elements so that it improves your luck. This may also help to reduce any possible conflicts from arising.

Otherwise, the other will be your own people to people skill. You have to learn and find out the best way to deal with different people. Then apply them to the different people you handle.

Remember, that Feng Shui is no mircle cure for every single problem.

Hope that helps.

Warmest Regards
Robert Lee
GEOMANCY.NET - Center for Applied Feng Shui Research

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On 3/3/2005 7:46:28 PM, Anonymous wrote:

Dear Robert



But how can we have a better

relationship, there are always

lots of unnecessary arguments.

I just want to know what's the

best way for both of us.Since

both of us are working in same

organisation, what are the

directions we should use to

enhance our capabilities,

working relation as well as

our married life?





On 3/1/2005 7:06:46 PM, Robert Lee

wrote:
Dear Romila,
For the Eight

House or Kua, it
is not really

possible to
improve the relationship.

For
example, if North is

Excellent
for you, but North is

Spook
for your spouse, then it

is
not possible to make North

the
best direction for both

of
you. This is a limitation

of
this concept.
However, what

most people can
do is ensure that you

apply
the give and take

concept.
Meaning, priority of

a
suitability to a house goes

to
the breadwinner, while

the
breadwinner gets a

less
auspicious room. Then give

the
spouse a better more

suitable
bedroom, since the spouse

does
not get the luck from

the
house.
The only way you can

improve
any compatibilty, is

between
your birth element. Say one

is
weak waer and another is
Strong

metal. Then the best
binding element

is Water
element. Which can then

mean
that you should choose

colours
such as blue/back/gray as

a
common element for the

bedroom
etc.
Please use the

free
Compatibilty analysis in

our
Members Areas:-
URL:

http://login.geomancy.net
To help you

determine what are
your individual

elements as
well as the common

binding
element to improve

your
relationship or

compatibility.
Hope that

helps.
Warmest

RegardsRobert
LeeGEOMANCY.NET -

Center for
Applied Feng Shui

Research
On 3/1/2005 12:01:06 AM,

Romila Daga
wrote:
Edited by

Robert: Please
avoid
repeating

your post.
Your
postings will be

attended
to
once we get to it.

Please
read
our notice on when

can
I
expect an reply on

my
post?
URL:
http://www.geoman

cy.net
/phpfor
um/article.php?bid=

2&fid=
1
&mid=17755
My

Husbands date
of birth is
July 10,

1963 & mine
4th
Aug 1966. Can

you tell us
how
to increase

the
compatability
between us. We

are
working in
the same

organisation
&
always have

heated arguments