Based on my 8 House or Husband 8 House

[myfs_110942]

Hi,

I had generated the 8 house report for both myself and my husband based on our date of birth. From the report I realised my husband and I have totally opposite directions. What is good for me is bad for him. E.g. my East is prosperity but his East is irritation.

In this situation, what can we do? Whose 8 house report should we follow?

[Robert Lee]

Dear Anon,

Anonymous wrote:
I had generated the 8 house report for both myself and my husband based on our date of birth. From the report I realised my husband and I have totally opposite directions. What is good for me is bad for him. E.g. my East is prosperity but his East is irritation.

Anonymous wrote:
In this situation, what can we do? Whose 8 house report should we follow?

This is actually a very commonly asked question.

Often in a household, the husband is usually considered the breadwinner as he provides for the entire family. Or the one earning most to sustain the family. So you need to first determine whether it is you or your husband. Very likely it would be your husband.

So if this is the case, you should try to ensure that the breadwinner gets a suitable facing direction from the house. This will mean that he will get luck from the home itself. Since the breadwinner get luck from the house, the rest of the family will indirectlyenjoy this luck as he provides for the entire family.

For the rest of the family, the bedroom location will be more important to obtain their own luck from the bedroom location itself. Thus, even if the house facing does not fit the various family member this is not as important to the rest of the family member.

So under this rules, you should ensure the breadwinner gets the best luck from the house facing, and give a better bedroom to the spouse to enjoy. Ideally, if possible, try to look for a house that is good for the breadwinner but does not fall under the death or disaster for the spouse (the next most important person in the family). But do this only when it is possible. Sometimes, even if the spouse has a death or disater facing, but as long as the spouse have a suitable bedroom it is acceptable.

Then for the bedroom, since the breadwinner has already gotten luck from the house, even if he takes a less suitable bedroom, it is fine for him. The spouse which did not get a suitable facing direction should then be given a better bedroom. Again, where possible, if the bedroom does not fall under the death or disaster for the breadwinner. This would be ideal.

Hope that helps.

Warmest Regards
Robert Lee
GEOMANCY.NET - Center for Applied Feng Shui Research