Compatbility

[myfs_149301]

Good day!
My girlfriend and I are 6 years apart and according to the info (basis the animal signs)in your website, our relationship is considered "very difficult'. I'm of thepig signand she's of the snake sign. According to your free 'comparison', we have no clashes in the heavenly stem but two clashes (year pillar & year pillar + year pillar & day pillar) in the earthlybranch.
Does that mean we will not be fortunate/happy together or there's some kind of remedy?
Thanks!
Best regards,
Gerald

[Cecil Lee]

These are some of the considerations:-
1. Based on one's Year of birth; yes, in the attached picture diagram; every six years, the animal sign facing each other is suppose to be the "worst pairing":-
http://www.lovesigns.net/horoscope/horoscope.htm
2. We can't change the basic Chinese Astrology / Zodiac sign means of suggesting the above "worst" paring. Thus, in the attached diagram; correspondingly; the rat's worst pairing is that of a horse.
3. The good news; is that the above; today, is equivalent of "kindergarten" type of Chinese Astrology as it is based soley on one's YEAR of birth.
4. Tze Wei Tou Shou is quite similar to Ba Zi; and for ba zi; the inputs are even more :
4.1. In order to create a ba zi chart; it is compulsory to have: DD / MM / YYYY . Time of birth is good but if not available; still acceptable.
5. Thus; Chinese astrology needs only one field: Year of birth; Ba zi needs at least three variables: Day / Month / Year (and even Hour of birth).
6. For example; best to further check compatiblity is via one's ba zi.
For example: Anyone can be born in a specific year e.g. 1980. But in that year, there are so many variables: Strong Metal or Weak; Strong Water or Weak; Strong Wood or Weak; Strong Fire or Weak; Strong Earth or Weak.
7. For example, if you are considered as a weak wood; but your spouse is a strong water person. Here, even if both of you are either a pig or a snake; under the five elements concept: strong water supports weak wood. Thus based on the bazi; this two persons: are considered to be very compatible. As a weak wood person; gets support from a strong water person. And a strong water person; can have weak wood to draw out the too much water; making the strong water = balanced out...

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On 3/13/2011 8:37:46 AM, Anonymous wrote:
Good day!My girlfriend and I
are 6 years apart and
according to the info (basis
the animal signs)in your
website, our relationship is
considered "very
difficult'. I'm of
thepig signand
she's of the snake sign.
According to your free
'comparison', we have no
clashes in the heavenly stem
but two clashes (year pillar
& year pillar + year
pillar & day pillar) in
the earthlybranch.Does
that mean we will not be
fortunate/happy together or
there's some kind of
remedy?Thanks!Best
regards,Gerald

[Cecil Lee]

Further to what I had mentioned:-
1. The adage: "Love is blind" ....
2. Sometimes; it is best not to relate or look into the area of compatibility; as often the dangers are:-
2.1. Auto-suggestion
For example, if we scold a rabbit or a sheep; it is none the wiser. But if the couple has a major quarrel; one never knows; one may even bring up the issue of "compatibility" and doubt may set i.
2.2. Self-fullfilling prophecy
It may literally come true!
3. Best advice is if both of you really are in love and make that life long commitment; don't look back at "such things" Chinese zodiac signs etc...

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On 3/14/2011 12:09:32 PM, Anonymous wrote:
These are some of the considerations:-1.
Based on one's Year of birth; yes, in
the attached picture diagram; every six
years, the animal sign facing each other
is suppose to be the "worst
pairing":-http://www.lovesigns.net/horos
cope/horoscope.htm2. We can't change the
basic Chinese Astrology / Zodiac sign
means of suggesting the above "worst"
paring. Thus, in the attached diagram;
correspondingly; the rat's worst pairing
is that of a horse.3. The good news; is
that the above; today, is equivalent of
"kindergarten" type of Chinese Astrology
as it is based soley on one's YEAR of
birth.4. Tze Wei Tou Shou is quite
similar to Ba Zi; and for ba zi; the
inputs are even more :4.1. In order to
create a ba zi chart; it is compulsory
to have: DD / MM / YYYY . Time of
birth is good but if not available;
still acceptable.5. Thus; Chinese
astrology needs only one field: Year of
birth; Ba zi needs at least three
variables: Day / Month / Year (and even
Hour of birth).6. For example; best to
further check compatiblity is via one's
ba zi.For example: Anyone can be
born in a specific year e.g. 1980. But
in that year, there are so many
variables: Strong Metal or
Weak; Strong Water or Weak; Strong
Wood or Weak; Strong Fire or Weak;
Strong Earth or Weak.7. For example, if
you are considered as a weak wood; but
your spouse is a strong water person.
Here, even if both of you are either a
pig or a snake; under the five elements
concept: strong water supports weak
wood. Thus based on the bazi; this two
persons: are considered to be very
compatible. As a weak wood person; gets
support from a strong water person. And
a strong water person; can have weak
wood to draw out the too much water;
making the strong water = balanced
out... On 3/13/2011 8:37:46 AM,
Anonymous wrote:
Good day!My
girlfriend and I
are 6 years apart
and
according to the info (basis
the animal signs)in your
website, our relationship is
considered "very
difficult'. I'm of
thepig signand
she's
of the snake sign.
According
to your free
'comparison', we have
no
clashes in the heavenly stem
but two clashes (year pillar
& year pillar + year
pillar
& day pillar) in
the
earthlybranch.Does
that mean
we will not be
fortunate/happy
together or
there's some kind of
remedy?Thanks!Best
regards,Gerald

[Cecil Lee]

This came from the first page of my website: lovesigns.net:-
The nature of love is one of the great mysteries of life.

"One way you can improve your relationship and love life by understanding one another's personality."

Many of us, after reading something.. e.g. the characterists of a "pig" and may even consciously or unconciously act out the role of a "pig".
If so, the above statement in BLUE, should be a 'counter' to auto-suggestion. Thus, if one feels that the Chinese zodiac signs lead us to fear our opposite; one could instead; use this adversity in a positive manner; by reading up the "traits" of say both our sign to better understand the tempermanet and behaviour of the other party!
That is how; I personally realistically feel that this is a better model.

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On 3/14/2011 1:25:15 PM, Anonymous wrote:
Further to what I had mentioned:-1. The
adage: "Love is blind" ....2. Sometimes;
it is best not to relate or look into
the area of compatibility; as often the
dangers are:-2.1. Auto-suggestionFor
example, if we scold a rabbit or a
sheep; it is none the wiser. But if the
couple has a major quarrel; one never
knows; one may even bring up the issue
of "compatibility" and doubt may set
i.2.2. Self-fullfilling prophecyIt may
literally come true!3. Best advice is if
both of you really are in love and make
that life long commitment; don't look
back at "such things" Chinese zodiac
signs etc...On 3/14/2011 12:09:32 PM,
Cecil Lee wrote:
These are some of
the considerations:-1.
Based on
one's Year of birth; yes, in
the
attached picture diagram; every six
years, the animal sign facing each
other
is suppose to be the "worst
pairing":-http://www.lovesigns.net/h
oros
cope/horoscope.htm2. We can't
change the
basic Chinese Astrology /
Zodiac sign
means of suggesting the
above "worst"
paring. Thus, in the
attached diagram;
correspondingly;
the rat's worst pairing
is that of a
horse.3. The good news; is
that the
above; today, is equivalent of
"kindergarten" type of Chinese
Astrology
as it is based soley on
one's YEAR of
birth.4. Tze Wei Tou
Shou is quite
similar to Ba Zi; and
for ba zi; the
inputs are even more
:4.1. In order to
create a ba zi
chart; it is compulsory
to
have: DD / MM / YYYY . Time of
birth is good but if not available;
still acceptable.5. Thus; Chinese
astrology needs only one field: Year
of
birth; Ba zi needs at least three
variables: Day / Month / Year (and
even
Hour of birth).6. For example;
best to
further check compatiblity
is via one's
ba zi.For
example: Anyone can be
born in
a specific year e.g. 1980. But
in
that year, there are so many
variables: Strong Metal or
Weak; Strong Water or Weak;
Strong
Wood or Weak; Strong Fire or
Weak;
Strong Earth or Weak.7. For
example, if
you are considered as a
weak wood; but
your spouse is a
strong water person.
Here, even if
both of you are either a
pig or a
snake; under the five elements
concept: strong water supports weak
wood. Thus based on the bazi; this
two
persons: are considered to be
very
compatible. As a weak wood
person; gets
support from a strong
water person. And
a strong water
person; can have weak
wood to draw
out the too much water;
making the
strong water = balanced
out... On
3/13/2011 8:37:46 AM,
Anonymous
wrote:
Good day!My
girlfriend
and I
are 6 years apart
and
according to the info (basis
the animal signs)in your
website, our relationship is
considered "very
difficult'. I'm of
thepig signand
she's
of the snake sign.
According
to your free
'comparison', we have
no
clashes in the heavenly stem
but two clashes (year pillar
& year pillar + year
pillar
& day pillar) in
the
earthlybranch.Does
that mean
we will not be
fortunate/happy
together or
there's some kind of
remedy?Thanks!Best
regards,Gerald

[myfs_149301]

Hi Master Cecil,
Many thanks your super prompt reply.
We totally understand what you mean.
However, both of our birth elements are strong earth.
Does that mean we may not have an easy marriage/ relationship?
What can we do to improve the situation?Try to have almost everything around us in white/ metallic to neutralize/ reduceour strong earth birth element?
Thanks again!

[Cecil Lee]

Applying the concept of "The Holy Trinity" of Luck:-
1. Heaven Luck = ba zi : this includes both of you being strong earth
2. Earth Luck = Feng Shui of home and office
3. Human Luck (or man luck) = relationship with each other.
Mathematically, each of the above three luck =
Heaven Luck = 33.3333 percent
Earth Luck = 33.3333 percent
Human Luck = 33.3333 percent
Overall, I have always mentioned: some people are not blessed with good Heaven Luck and in your case; the two partners are strong earth person.
Thus, one should try to squeeze out luck from earth and/or Human luck.
Sometimes; some people also have average Earth luck or Feng Shui.
So how; commonsense or cowsense says that there are lots of people; who don't have both heaven and earth luck; but; they have good family bonding etc.. and this third category called Human or Man luck factors is in essence = RELATIONSHIP building... Got it, get it?

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On 3/14/2011 3:24:41 PM, Anonymous wrote:
Hi Master Cecil,Many thanks
your super prompt reply.We
totally understand what you
mean.However, both of our
birth elements are strong
earth.Does that mean we may
not have an easy marriage/
relationship?What can we do to
improve the
situation?Try to
have almost everything around
us in white/ metallic to
neutralize/ reduceour
strong earth birth
element?Thanks
again!

[myfs_149301]

Hi Master Lee,
It's crystal clear now. Thank you very much!

[myfs_149301]

Dear Master Lee,
Since my girlfriend and myself are both strong earth people and there's certainly not much we can derive from theheaven luck,what can we do (earth luck aspects) more to keep our relationship more 'harmonious'? We know that the metal element is good for us and thus we arelooking into the possibility to fill the apartment with more whites and 'metals'. Should we also consider having our bedroom and living roomin theNW (big metal) and W (small metal) sectorsas well?Our concern now is that our apartment's master bedroomis in the NE (earth)sector and would that mean that we would be too overwhelmed with the earth element if we were torest in the NE room? Could you please advise us on what would be the 'side effect' of having too much of the earth element?
Thank you!

[Cecil Lee]

1. Yes, there is a limitation to how much one can squeeze out of Heaven Luck.
2. On the Earth luck side; frankly, if your home were those with "Quantum Leap" in Feng Shui. If so; as the word suggests; it is in excess of all the Heaven Luck that one could get or ever squeeze out and even more.
3. To find out what is Quantum Leap; do a Search for this term.
4. Frankly, Feng Shui is a wide field. And it starts from the simple 3 L's: location, location and location. These three L's is really the major key success-factor in making, breaking or even having a Quantum Leap.
5. What you are trying to squeeze out from your statement is : within the four walls of your home.
6. If you seem to want to do DIY Feng Shui; then; you may have to apply Shapes and Forms plus the Two major Compass School Feng Shui theories into your home.
7. Please note that what you are mentioning in all your statements are : You, her, both partners = trying to squeeze out luck from the bazi elements or colours.
8. But do you know that; yes, both partners have your DD/MM/YY and even HHMM.
9. But, you can't just eat and sleep based only on your DD/MM/YY and even HHMM.
10. Do take note that you have not even considered: the Feng Shui aspect. For example one Feng Shui aspect relates to the Flying Star Feng Shui.
11. For example; every home or apartment MUST fall within or onto one of the 15 directions. Of course, there is the bad luck homes that fall in-between. That is another sad story.
12. You only considered your birthdates. Flying Star Feng Shui also is based on the birthdate of the home. For example; a home can even have a birthdate ofT.O.P. in 2004!
13. Thus, you can't just use tunnel vision and think otherwise or in isolation that just because both of you need metal or lots of it; the home may need it also.
14. However, in some instances; metal element may be needed in a Flying Star sector; but not all sectors could benefit by metal.
15. Thus, unfortunately, your idea of squeezing out luck is flawed.Just imagine; what you had written below is like both of you own and share a car. BUT WAIT! You don't own the road! You can't just drive thru a RED LIGHT. You still have to OBEY the traffic lights.
16. Here, the traffic lights are like the Flying Star variable. Please think about it, please.

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On 3/18/2011 3:53:41 PM, Anonymous wrote:
Dear Master Lee,Since my
girlfriend and myself are both
strong earth people and
there's certainly not much we
can derive from
theheaven
luck,what can we do
(earth luck aspects) more to
keep our relationship more
'harmonious'? We know
that the metal element is good
for us and thus we
arelooking into the
possibility to fill the
apartment with more whites and
'metals'. Should we also
consider having our bedroom
and living roomin
theNW (big metal) and W
(small metal) sectorsas
well?Our concern
now is that our apartment's
master bedroomis in the
NE (earth)sector and
would that mean that we would
be too overwhelmed with the
earth element if we were
torest in the NE
room? Could you please
advise us on what would be the
'side effect' of having too
much of the earth
element?Thank you!

[Cecil Lee]

Further to what I mentioned;

In the past, around the 1970's and 1980's; Feng Shui was not as sophisticated as today;

Feng Shui practitioners could easily pass-off the concept that say; since this chap lacks wood; that fella would happily make his home full of "wood".

Today, this may be challenged by Feng Shui smart clients!

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On 3/18/2011 5:26:27 PM, Anonymous wrote:
1. Yes, there is a limitation to how
much one can squeeze out of Heaven
Luck.2. On the Earth luck side; frankly,
if your home were those with "Quantum
Leap" in Feng Shui. If so; as the word
suggests; it is in excess of all the
Heaven Luck that one could get or ever
squeeze out and even more.3. To find out
what is Quantum Leap; do a Search for
this term.4. Frankly, Feng Shui is a
wide field. And it starts from the
simple 3 L's: location, location and
location. These three L's is really the
major key success-factor in making,
breaking or even having a Quantum
Leap.5. What you are trying to squeeze
out from your statement is : within the
four walls of your home.6. If you seem
to want to do DIY Feng Shui; then; you
may have to apply Shapes and Forms plus
the Two major Compass School Feng Shui
theories into your home.7. Please note
that what you are mentioning in all your
statements are : You, her, both partners
= trying to squeeze out luck from the
bazi elements or colours.8. But do you
know that; yes, both partners have your
DD/MM/YY and even HHMM.9. But, you can't
just eat and sleep based only on your
DD/MM/YY and even HHMM.10. Do take note
that you have not even considered: the
Feng Shui aspect. For example one Feng
Shui aspect relates to the Flying Star
Feng Shui.11. For example; every home or
apartment MUST fall within or onto one
of the 15 directions. Of course, there
is the bad luck homes that fall
in-between. That is another sad story.
12. You only considered your birthdates.
Flying Star Feng Shui also is based on
the birthdate of the home. For example;
a home can even have a birthdate
of?T.O.P. in 2004! 13. Thus, you
can't just use tunnel vision and think
otherwise or in isolation that just
because both of you need metal or lots
of it; the home may need it also. 14.
However, in some instances; metal
element may be needed in a Flying Star
sector; but not all sectors could
benefit by metal. 15. Thus,
unfortunately, your idea of squeezing
out luck is flawed.?Just imagine;
what you had written below is like both
of you own and share a car. BUT WAIT!
You don't own the road! You can't just
drive thru a RED LIGHT. You still have
to OBEY the traffic lights.16. Here, the
traffic lights are like the Flying Star
variable. Please think about it,
please.On 3/18/2011 3:53:41 PM,
Anonymous wrote: >Dear Master
Lee,Since my >girlfriend and myself
are both >strong earth people and
there's certainly not much we
can derive from >the?heaven
luck,?what can we do >(earth
luck aspects) more to >keep our
relationship more
'harmonious'?? We know >that
the metal element is good >for us and
thus we >are?looking into the
possibility to fill the
apartment with more whites and
'metals'.? Should we also
consider having our bedroom >and
living room?in >the?NW (big
metal) and W >(small metal)
sectors?as >well???Our
concern >now is that our apartment's
master bedroom?is in the >NE
(earth)?sector and >would that
mean that we would >be too
overwhelmed with the >earth element
if we were >to?rest in the NE
room?? Could you please
advise us on what would be the
'side effect' of having too >much
of the earth >element??Thank
you! >???

[myfs_149301]

Hi Master Lee,
We are not sure if we have clearly understood what youwere trying to tell us on how we can improve the feng shui of our house but we do appreciate very much your comments + time.
It would certainly be good if we were to lack certain element/s, we just add more of these elements or their symbols in the house.Too bad this is really not the case. Otherwise, all of us would easily be Feng Shui Masters! Once again, thanks for sharing!

[Cecil Lee]

Look at it this way:
1. Pretend that you are now in the 1970's
2. You engaged a "Geomancer" for your home.
3. The geomancer's key suggestion to you is"Both of you lack metal or rather needs more metal!"
4.Since you are the driving force behind the concern: "YOUR FACE LIGHTED UP LIKE A CHRISMAS TREE!'
5.Wow : This Geomancer founda SOLUTION forME!(While that one I searched and found in the internet in the 2011's couldn't offfer me a solution!)
6. Since many of us dwell with HUMAN factors or FEEL good factors; instead of sulking after reading the "negatives"; you place lots of metal..
7. And LIKE all the fairy tale story's : BOTH OF YOU LIVE HAPPILY THERE AFTER!
8. How about that! One up for HUMAN or MAN LUCK factor! Heck with all the today's Fung Sway complications like: #8 = current prosperity; Mountain stars; Water stars; #5 = misfortune, sickness; #3 = quarrels, conflicts, lawsuits etc....
GOT IT, GET IT?

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On 3/19/2011 8:55:11 AM, Anonymous wrote:
Hi Master Lee,We are not sure
if we have clearly understood
what youwere trying to
tell us on how we can improve
the feng shui of our house but
we do appreciate very much
your comments + time.It
would certainly be good if we
were to lack certain
element/s, we just add more of
these elements or their
symbols in the
house.Too bad this
is really not the case.
Otherwise, all of us would
easily be Feng Shui
Masters! Once again,
thanks for sharing!