Year of Snake is suitable for marriage?

[myfs_149301]

Good day Master Lee,
I have just subscribed to your 'auspicious wedding date" service today but I just can't wait to get an answer from your end.
I was born in year of pig (1971) and my girlfriend was born in year of sheep (1979). According to the tools available in your website,I am of the strong earth element and my girlfriend is of strong metal.
From what I have heard, those born in year of pig and sheep should avoid marrying in year of snake. This is especially for the 'pigs'. However, the tools available in your website mentions that strong earth pig could have a pretty good year in 2013 and strong metal sheep could have quite a good year in 2013 too. Does that marriage for us in year of snake may not be that bad an idea? Not sure if we would want to wait till Y2014 before marrying though it is considered to be a 'good' year for those born in year of sheep. Or should we try to ROM in year of dragon (about 2.5 months remaining) before we go through the customary wedding in Y2013/2014 to 'spread out our risk'?
Thank you!

[Cecil Lee]

These are some considerations:
1. Under the Chinese astrology, please refer to the main page of http://lovesigns.net ;
1.1. The animal sign directly opposite it is considered the worst pairing.
1.2. Thus if one look at the graphic on the main page of http://lovesigns.net the rat's worst pairing or rather greatest enemy is the horse. While the pig's worst pairing is the snake.
1.3. Under the Chinese Horoscope, thus the pig and snake is considered a "very difficult" pairing:-
http://www.lovesigns.net/horoscope/areference/csnpi.htm
1.4. Thus under the Chinese Horoscope the writing on the wall, a match between the pig and the snake is considered A one sided affair.

Snake is ruthless while pig is trusting and generous always warm and caring. Snake only takes advantage of this as it is calculative and does not return the trust and generosity as it only does that when there is some tangible reward for doing so. A really disappointed and sad Pig.
2. Thus strictly based on Chinese Horoscope; in the olden days, generally it is said that not only should the pig not marry the snake in the year of the snake, the pig should not even be enticed to be with the snake.
3. Therefore, if we based on logic to analyse the Chinese Horoscope; Para 2 although it is not good for a pig to marry in the YEAR of the snake; more importantly, the pig (is suppose) to steer clear of the snake.
3.1 Thus, if we go thru this logic: "frankly, it will not make any difference even if the PIG marries the snake in the year of the snake right? Since, the key essence again under the Chinese horoscope they should not be together (PERIOD).
4. What must one do now given that one has read such things?

4.1. If one goes ahead with the relationship; Please, do find a way of forgetting what you have read from here, there and everywhere of the pig and snake incompatibility.

4.2. Or rather, just wish that you have never read such things at all. Why? If one continues with the relationship; nothing else should ever get in the way; especially that of auto-suggestion and self-fullfilling prophecy.

5. Thus, if one is in love and wants badly to marry (the pig and the snake) it is not going to make a difference if you marry in the year of the snake or otherwise; Furthermore, when selecting auspicious dates; there is no such thing as the whole year is bad or rotten; even for two partners, there are always suitable combined auspicous dates in any year!

6. Nowadays, as you had deduced, ba zi elements are or can be used in Feng Shui to harmonise one's earth luck = Feng Shui of the home. Thus in this area; it is not the end of the "world" or romance for a snake slaughtering the pig. Other clues can be gleamed from one's ba zi such as the 10 deities chart etc...

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On 12/22/2012 11:03:52 AM, Anonymous wrote:
Good day Master Lee,I have
just subscribed to your
'auspicious wedding date"
service today but I just can't
wait to get an answer from
your end. I was born in year
of pig (1971) and my
girlfriend was born in year of
sheep (1979). According
to the tools available in your
website,I am of the
strong earth element and my
girlfriend is of strong
metal.From what I have heard,
those born in year of pig and
sheep should avoid marrying in
year of snake. This is
especially for the 'pigs'.
However, the tools
available in your website
mentions that strong earth pig
could have a pretty good year
in 2013 and strong metal sheep
could have quite a good year
in 2013 too. Does that
marriage for us in year of
snake may not be that bad an
idea? Not sure if we
would want to wait till Y2014
before marrying though it is
considered to be a 'good' year
for those born in year of
sheep. Or should we try
to ROM in year of dragon
(about 2.5 months remaining)
before we go through the
customary wedding in
Y2013/2014 to 'spread out our
risk'?Thank you!

[Cecil Lee]

Please refer to the illustration taken from http://lovesigns.net
Every six years, one would have met the worst pairing.
Thus the animal sign opposite the animal sign is considered the worst pairing.
Therefore, the rat's worst pairing is the horse. While the pig's worst nightmare is suppose to be the snake.

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On 12/24/2012 8:28:20 AM, Anonymous wrote:
These are some
considerations:1. Under the
Chinese astrology, please
refer to the main page of
http://lovesigns.net ;1.1. The
animal sign directly opposite
it is considered the worst
pairing.1.2. Thus if one look
at the graphic on the main
page of
http://lovesigns.net the
rat's worst pairing or rather
greatest enemy is the horse.
While the pig's worst pairing
is the snake.1.3. Under the
Chinese Horoscope, thus the
pig and snake is considered a
"very difficult"
pairing:-http://www.lovesigns.
net/horoscope/areference/csnpi
.htm1.4. Thus under the
Chinese Horoscope the writing
on the wall, a match between
the pig and the snake is
considered A one sided
affair.
Snake is ruthless while pig is
trusting and generous always
warm and caring. Snake only
takes advantage of this as it
is calculative and does not
return the trust and
generosity as it only does
that when there is some
tangible reward for doing so.
A really disappointed and sad
Pig.2. Thus strictly based on
Chinese Horoscope; in the
olden days, generally it is
said that not only should the
pig not marry the snake in the
year of the snake, the pig
should not even be enticed to
be with the snake.3.
Therefore, if we based on
logic to analyse the Chinese
Horoscope; Para 2 although it
is not good for a pig to marry
in the YEAR of the snake; more
importantly, the pig (is
suppose) to steer clear of the
snake. 3.1 Thus, if we go thru
this logic: "frankly, it will
not make any difference even
if the PIG marries the snake
in the year of the snake
right? Since, the key essence
again under the Chinese
horoscope they should not be
together (PERIOD).4. What must
one do now given that one has
read such things?
4.1. If one goes ahead with
the relationship; Please, do
find a way of forgetting what
you have read from here, there
and everywhere of the pig and
snake incompatibility.
4.2. Or rather, just wish that
you have never read such
things at all. Why? If one
continues with the
relationship; nothing else
should ever get in the way;
especially that of
auto-suggestion and
self-fullfilling prophecy.
5. Thus, if one is in love and
wants badly to marry (the pig
and the snake) it is not going
to make a difference if you
marry in the year of the snake
or otherwise; Furthermore,
when selecting auspicious
dates; there is no such thing
as the whole year is bad or
rotten; even for two partners,
there are always suitable
combined auspicous dates in
any year!
6. Nowadays, as you had deduced, ba zi
elements are or can be used in Feng Shui
to harmonise one's earth luck = Feng
Shui of the home. Thus in this area; it
is not the end of the "world" or romance
for a snake slaughtering the pig. Other
clues can be gleamed from one's ba zi
such as the 10 deities chart etc...On
12/22/2012 11:03:52 AM, Anonymous wrote:
Good day Master Lee,I have
just
subscribed to your
'auspicious
wedding date"
service today but I
just can't
wait to get an answer
from
your end. I was born in year
of pig (1971) and my
girlfriend
was born in year of
sheep (1979).
According
to the tools
available in your
website,I am
of the
strong earth element and my
girlfriend is of strong
metal.From what I have heard,
those born in year of pig and
sheep should avoid marrying in
year of snake. This is
especially for the 'pigs'.
However, the tools
available in your website
mentions that strong earth pig
could have a pretty good year
in
2013 and strong metal sheep
could
have quite a good year
in 2013 too.
Does that
marriage for us in
year of
snake may not be that bad an
idea? Not sure if we
would
want to wait till Y2014
before
marrying though it is
considered to
be a 'good' year
for those born in
year of
sheep. Or should we
try
to ROM in year of dragon
(about 2.5 months remaining)
before we go through the
customary wedding in
Y2013/2014
to 'spread out our
risk'?Thank
you!