Binding element

[myfs_66967]

Hi Mr Lee
What is binding element?
If the binding element between me and mu husband is water, what is the implications? Do I increase the water element in our flat?
Regards

[Cecil Lee]

Dear Anon,
1. One can consider `binding element' as a key success factor for a home.
2. What is the binding element?
2.1 Before we can understand binding element, we need to take a look at an example:-
Husband's Ba Zi is weak water.
Wife's Ba Zi is weak wood.
3. Binding element simply means finding an element that can bind the two partners together.
4. In the above example, the binding element for a weak water person with weak wood person is the Water element.
This report is available as the comparison chart for two parties under www.geomancy-online.com
5. It is also interesting to note this because, in the past, rich parents would consult a geomancer to find out how compatible the two `partners' are in their marriage.
In the above example, since there is only ONE binding element: i.e. weak wood vs weak water = water element. The clue here is that this two are suppose to be compatible.
6. In another example:-
Husband element = weak earth
Wife element = weak water
In this example, the binding elements are Fire and water element.
6.1 In the past, if the Ba Zi of this two persons are considered, they are considered as not so compatible. The rationale here is that they need two elements to bind them together.
Thus, their binding element are Fire and Water element.
7. What then is the binding element?
In the above two examples, one can see that binding element is about comparing two parties element and strength.
This is useful, for decorating especially the rooms that they sleep in. For a husband and wife (weak wood vs weak water), their binding element as we understand is Water element.
7.1. In the above example, one useful situation is to have some `blue/black or grey' in the room. For example, the walls in the room can be painted in blue.
And since weak wood's favourable colours are: Metal and water
While weak water's favourable colours are: Water and wood.
Given the above understanding, one can mix and match colour or materials in the room to achieve the best of both binding and favourable colours.
For example:
Alternative 1:
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Paint the bedroom wall - blue
Bedsheet - alternate between White and Green
Cabinet - can be white
Alternative 2:
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Paint the bedroom wall - white
Bedsheet - alternate between Blue or Green or white
Cabinet - wood laminated in blue or grey
One can therefore, mix and match combinations as shown in the above examples and more to come up with various alternatives.
In the living room or furniture, one can go for binding elements that bind both partners and again mix and match elements that are favourable to both.
Once this is achieved, it does not matter if the curtains can use other colours even if they are not favourable to the couple. Since, we have sufficient elements of favourable colours already.
Warmest Regards,
Cecil

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On 5/7/2002 4:47:00 AM, Anonymous wrote:
Hi Mr Lee
What is binding element?
If the binding element between
me and mu husband is water,
what is the implications? Do I
increase the water element in
our flat?
Regards

[myfs_66967]

Dear Mr Lee
Does the application of binding elements also applies to a couple having one strong and one weak element (say strong metal vs weak water)?
Referring to your point 6.1, shouldn't the couple with more binding element be more compatible compared to the couple that has only 1 binding element since there are more help to bind the two parties. (more help as in more choices of the binding elements to achieve compatibility)
Regards

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On 5/7/2002 11:40:00 AM, Anonymous wrote:
Dear Anon,
1. One can consider `binding
element' as a key success
factor for a home.
2. What is the binding
element?
2.1 Before we can understand
binding element, we need to
take a look at an example:-
Husband's Ba Zi is weak water.
Wife's Ba Zi is weak wood.
3. Binding element simply
means finding an element that
can bind the two partners
together.
4. In the above example, the
binding element for a weak
water person with weak wood
person is the Water element.
This report is available as
the comparison chart for two
parties under
www.geomancy-online.com
5. It is also interesting to
note this because, in the
past, rich parents would
consult a geomancer to find
out how compatible the two
`partners' are in their
marriage.
In the above example, since
there is only ONE binding
element: i.e. weak wood vs
weak water = water element.
The clue here is that this two
are suppose to be compatible.
6. In another example:-
Husband element = weak earth
Wife element = weak water
In this example, the binding
elements are Fire and water
element.
6.1 In the past, if the Ba Zi
of this two persons are
considered, they are
considered as not so
compatible. The rationale here
is that they need two elements
to bind them together.
Thus, their binding element
are Fire and Water element.
7. What then is the binding
element?
In the above two examples, one
can see that binding element
is about comparing two parties
element and strength.
This is useful, for decorating
especially the rooms that they
sleep in. For a husband and
wife (weak wood vs weak
water), their binding element
as we understand is Water
element.
7.1. In the above example, one
useful situation is to have
some `blue/black or grey' in
the room. For example, the
walls in the room can be
painted in blue.
And since weak wood's
favourable colours are: Metal
and water
While weak water's favourable
colours are: Water and wood.
Given the above understanding,
one can mix and match colour
or materials in the room to
achieve the best of both
binding and favourable
colours.
For example:
Alternative 1:
==============
Paint the bedroom wall - blue
Bedsheet - alternate between
White and Green
Cabinet - can be white
Alternative 2:
==============
Paint the bedroom wall - white
Bedsheet - alternate between
Blue or Green or white
Cabinet - wood laminated in
blue or grey
One can therefore, mix and
match combinations as shown in
the above examples and more to
come up with various
alternatives.
In the living room or
furniture, one can go for
binding elements that bind
both partners and again mix
and match elements that are
favourable to both.
Once this is achieved, it does
not matter if the curtains can
use other colours even if they
are not favourable to the
couple. Since, we have
sufficient elements of
favourable colours already.
Warmest Regards,
Cecil

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On 5/7/2002 4:47:00 AM, Anonymous wrote:
Hi Mr Lee
What is binding element?
If the binding element between
me and mu husband is water,
what is the implications? Do I
increase the water element in
our flat?
Regards

[jing.fung]

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On 5/8/2002 12:48:00 AM, Anonymous wrote:
Dear Mr Lee
Does the application of
binding elements also applies
to a couple having one strong
and one weak element (say
strong metal vs weak water)?
Referring to your point 6.1,
shouldn't the couple with more
binding element be more
compatible compared to the
couple that has only 1 binding
element since there are more
help to bind the two parties.
(more help as in more choices
of the binding elements to
achieve compatibility)
No, I think you are mis-understanding this idea. I believe what has been said is that it requires "both" binding elements "at the same time" to be a successful binding element. Which is why having only one binding element is more desirable, as it is more difficult getting two elements together rather than just one.

Kam