To move in or not to at all?

[myfs_42718]

Dear Mr. Lee
Thank you very much for your reply and advice.
If we have little choice but to move into this flat, is there any way to minimise the negative effect, or should we forget about moving in at all. Can you kindly advise what kind of negative effects will there be for me.
Reference your reply, both my husband and myself are earning the same amount and our contributions to the family are equally important.
Once again, the details are as follows:
1. Door is facing west (ie. We are facing west when we open the door from inside the flat), and at the South-West sector of the flat.
2. Bedroom door is also facing west (ie. We are facing west when we open the door from inside the bedroom), and at the East sector of the flat. We will be sleeping with heads facing South.
Our kitchen is at the west sector of the flat, and there are 2 toilets, one at North-West, and the other at the North sector of the flat.
My son of 4 years old and myself belong to the East Group, and my husband belongs to the West.
We deeply appreciate your advice.
Thank you.
Audrey

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On 6/3/2003 1:05:10 PM, Anonymous wrote:
Dear Audrey,
1. In Feng Shui, there is
still a (strong element) of
`Male domination'.
2. Given the two different
groups - i.e. East vs West, we
often go for the male figure
i.e. in this case your
husband. Unless you earn
substantially more.
3. In my opinion, if one
strictly base it on the Eight
House than, this is still not
the `best' home.
4. Go more for such
combinations:-
Husband:
Excellent, Prosperity, Health
and Longevity
vs yourself - Spook and
Irritation
For example, the Main door is
your husband's Excellent while
for you it is your `spook' or
irritation.
5. Where possible, one can
still try not to have `death'
or `disaster' at the main
entrance or the bedroom area,
Warmest Regards,
Cecil
On 6/1/2003 8:54:02 PM, Audrey Tan
wrote:
I belong to the East Group,
and my husband belongs to the
West. Our main door is in the
South-West sector of our flat,
facing West, which happens to
be my disaster and death
sector, which on the contrary
is my husband's prosperity
sector. Our bedroom is
located in the East, and we
are sleeping with heads in the
South direction. Our kitchen
is located in the West section
of our flat. Kindly advise if
this combination will benefit
both of us if we move into
this flat, and what remedy can
I use to reduce the negative
effects of the West facing
main door for myself, as well
as the South sleeping
direction for my husband.
Will placing a religious item
facing the main door help?

[Cecil Lee]

Dear Audrey,
1. As mentioned in my reply, if one is basing it purely on the Eight House, then this is not an ideal home.
2. However, many other factors must be taken into consideration. The term "location, location and location" is still the primary factor.
3. More often, we have to buy within our means. And, I believe, in Singapore or elsewhere, one do not need Feng Shui to understand that price is often linked or associated with a location.
4. For example, a place with a `nice view' often can command a higher premium (with or without the word Feng Shui factored in).
5. This is why; the saying goes "the rich, gets richer and the poor gets poorer". Here, the rich can often go for the most expensive / beautiful real estate.
6. I am saying that others cannot enjoy good Feng Shui, but, ultimately, for `good things' we often have to pay more.
7. Therefore, if one has, for example a very tight budget, then it makes more economic sense to see if we can afford it; keep it; rather than paying a premium and risk it being taken back/repossed.
Warmest Regards,
Cecil

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On 6/12/2003 9:00:34 PM, Anonymous wrote:
Dear Mr. Lee
Thank you very much for
your reply and advice.

If we have

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little choice but to move into this
flat, is there any way to minimise the
negative effect, or should we forget
about moving in at all. Can you kindly
advise what kind of negative effects
will there be for me.

Reference your

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reply, both my husband and myself are
earning the same amount and our
contributions to the family are equally
important.

Once again, the details are

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as follows:

1. Door is facing west (ie.

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We are facing west when we open the door
from inside the flat), and at the
South-West sector of the flat.

2.

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Bedroom door is also facing west (ie. We
are facing west when we open the door
from inside the bedroom), and at the
East sector of the flat. We will be
sleeping with heads facing South.

Our

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kitchen is at the west sector of the
flat, and there are 2 toilets, one at
North-West, and the other at the North
sector of the flat.

My son of 4 years

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old and myself belong to the East Group,
and my husband belongs to the West.

We

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deeply appreciate your advice.

Thank

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you.

Audrey
On 6/3/2003 1:05:10 PM,

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Cecil Lee wrote:
Dear Audrey,
1. In
Feng Shui, there is
still a (strong
element) of
`Male domination'.
2.
Given the two different
groups - i.e.
East vs West, we
often go for the male
figure
i.e. in this case your
husband.
Unless you earn
substantially
more.
3. In my opinion, if
one
strictly base it on the
Eight
House than, this is still
not
the `best' home.
4. Go more for
such
combinations:-
Husband:
Excell
ent, Prosperity, Health
and
Longevity
vs yourself - Spook
and
Irritation
For example, the Main
door is
your husband's Excellent
while
for you it is your `spook'
or
irritation.
5. Where possible,
one can
still try not to have
`death'
or `disaster' at the
main
entrance or the bedroom
area,
Warmest Regards,
Cecil
On
6/1/2003 8:54:02 PM, Audrey
Tan
wrote:
I belong to the East
Group,
and my husband belongs to
the
West. Our main door is in
the
South-West sector of our
flat,
facing West, which happens
to
be my disaster and death
sector,
which on the contrary
is my husband's
prosperity
sector. Our bedroom
is
located in the East, and we
are
sleeping with heads in the
South
direction. Our kitchen
is located in
the West section
of our flat. Kindly
advise if
this combination will
benefit
both of us if we move
into
this flat, and what remedy
can
I use to reduce the
negative
effects of the West
facing
main door for myself, as
well
as the South sleeping
direction
for my husband.
Will placing a
religious item
facing the main door
help?